Dream Request from June 1, 2011
[Dream Description]
I had a very unpleasant dream.
I caught my husband cheating with another woman. After that, I was so distraught that I cried, screamed, and even hit him.
Then, I ended up receiving alimony from his family—though it was only about 30,000 yen (laughs)—and that’s when I woke up.
[Interpretation Results]
Well, it seems your husband really loves you!
This is what’s called a “reverse dream,” where dreaming of infidelity actually symbolizes love and affection. That being said, it’s still an unpleasant feeling, isn’t it?
In general dream interpretation, this would indicate a positive outcome, but depending on the context, it could go beyond good or bad luck and reflect an issue within yourself.
In other words, you might be harboring vague anxieties about your married life.
These anxieties could escalate into thoughts like:
- Anxiety leads to imagining scenarios like your husband leaving you, or perhaps serious illness or death affecting your children (if you have any).
- This spirals into fears of your life falling apart.
Such deep-seated fears might be hidden within you.
Everyone carries some level of risk in their lives. However, if you constantly dwell on mistrust and anxiety, it could unintentionally impact your partner.
Living in that kind of negative emotional state could burden your spouse to the point that they feel pressured and might actually drift away.
Additionally, if you have children, they might sense your tension, leading to emotional distress or even health issues.
Everything in life is interconnected. Please trust the dream interpretation that your husband loves you dearly!
Personal Reflections on This Interpretation
The comparison between dream fortune-telling and psychological states is worth noting here.
The fortune-telling result itself is comforting—it gives people a sense of relief. After all, everyone wants to feel loved.
Dreams like this often occur when a person is overwhelmed by strong anxieties or is overthinking.
Infidelity in a dream is a classic example of how the subconscious expresses fears about a breakdown in daily life.
In this case, it would have been better to provide advice on resolving mistrust and anxieties about your partner, rather than just delivering the result and leaving it there.
Leaving it at “your husband loves you!” feels a bit cold—especially with such a serious topic (and the interpretation could also seem a bit like fearmongering).
A Better Approach
One better approach might be sharing your anxieties with your partner.
I believe the dreamer’s wish to maintain a happy relationship with their partner is evident here.
Opening up and honestly sharing your worries could be helpful. Your partner might not even realize that you’re feeling this way.
While not everything needs to be said out loud, keeping things bottled up isn’t ideal either.
Finding the right time to gently share your feelings could be a good step forward.
If I could have conveyed this back then, it might have been helpful.
Unfortunately, I was still inexperienced myself at the time.
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